If there was something I could say to my 15 year old self…it would be that any boy who makes himself the focus of everything will never be the person for you. More importantly, this boy will never be a man. If he degrades you with a smile and constantly jokes that you are not good enough…run! Julio was always only about Julio which is probably why he is alone without love in his life. I use to think I was the only one he mistreated but now…19 years later when he’s still trying to stop my growth…I realized no woman stayed with him and there is a reason why! ~KJM saying I hope this helps someone out there!