From the moment I met Julio in 1997, he’s been bad for my self esteem. Always pointing out what he didn’t like about my looks and my personality. I grew up around so much domestic violence that I forgot that punching a woman in her face is not the only terrible thing a person can do. Tearing down your spirit, looks, intelligence, and heart are just as damaging as being physically abused. I don’t know how I could have dated this person much less call them friend for so long. ~KJM on Flashback Friday saying never let anyone treat you like you are less than!