There comes a time when we have to stop confusing love with obsession. A cockroach coming home is not love. It’s obsession! There’s something you provide that no other woman does and unfortunately, it’s usually something negative. Like allowing the boy to always come back and set up shop. Continuously opening our vaginal walls to a boy we know cannot be faithful. Or even worse…taking care of these boys like we are their mamas! If these boys want to grow into men…our love has to be strong enough to let them go. Let them find their own way. A true man has to be able to stand on his own two feet. And his word will always be his bond! Women, don’t let obsession get you all confused. The letting go process, while hard at times, should be freeing! Free yourselves to live out your dreams! Take your lives to new heights! There’s no more cycle to keep you trapped! Breathe life! ~KJM on Throwback Thursday.